Even though I’ve been happily coupled up for many years, and happily part of a family for years before that, I’ve never lost my joy in traveling alone. Much as I miss the company of those I love, there’s something about the pleasure and inspiration that comes from hitting the road alone that makes it a wholly different experience. Here are some of the many benefits I’ve found in traveling solo.
- 1 Is Traveling Alone Fun?
- 2 Traveling Alone Grows Your Confidence
- 3 It makes You Resourceful
- 4 It Makes You Careful
- 5 You Make Your Own Discoveries
- 6 Traveling Solo Gives You Time To Reflect
- 7 You Can Make Your Own Choices (And Be Selfish In A Good Way)
- 8 But it Makes You Reach Out To others
- 9 Traveling Alone will Improve Your Language Skills
- 10 You’ll get to Know Yourself Better
- 11 You Can Misplace Your Comfort Zone
- 12 There’s Sweet Pain In Missing Those You Love
- 13 It Can Be Less Stressful
- 14 It Can Make You Happier
- 15 Want More encouragement to Travel Solo?
Is Traveling Alone Fun?
Yes, if you’re doing it right. But know yourself first. If you are someone who revels in company and draws your energy from others, then traveling alone might be hard work. For other people, time alone is an opportunity to recharge. Before you go, think about how you might make the experience better for yourself. Make sure you’ve got wifi if time chatting over Skype will renew and refresh your enthusiasm. Take mini-projects to do in your down time, to make sure you’re not bored on the road. Resolve to try and make new friends along the way, or to meet people you know online. These are all things that will help you find out how to travel alone happily.
Traveling Alone Grows Your Confidence
There’s nothing quite like the thrill of knowing that you are relying on yourself. Whether it’s making sure that you’re in the right place at the right time for travel connections, finding that elusive accommodation or even making your mind up as to whether something is a good idea, it’s all down to you. Growing to trust your own judgement is powerful and intoxicating. It can also renew your belief in yourself as an older woman traveling alone, where all your skills and knowledge are put to their best use. You can read why more older women are going it alone to travel solo here.
It makes You Resourceful
Left your undies at home? Missed the last train back to your accommodation? Shoes fallen apart on the trail? Whatever life throws at you, you need to cope. And cope you will, although it can be frustrating at the time. When I managed to get thoroughly lost in Brussels, I knew I was going to find my apartment again. It was just a matter of time. And around 20,000 steps. I felt a bit daft. But I also felt glad that I’d managed to sort it for myself. And I learned that two power banks are better than one when it comes to navigating via apps.
It Makes You Careful
After all, you need to trust in your ability to take care of yourself. Whether that’s in the choices you make in where to go, or who to trust, knowing that you’re in it alone focuses the mind wonderfully on the level of risk you’re willing to accept.
You Make Your Own Discoveries
My partner’s a sweetheart, and one of the things I love is his excitement when faced with a new place. “Come and look at this!” “Have you seen that tree with all the oranges?” Traveling alone, I get to find these things for myself. And while I might miss some, I can linger on the things that catch my eye. All those statues on the Stadhuis in Leuven. A busker whose repertoire I love. A new piece of public art riverside. All for me to spot and savour, each one a treasure.
Traveling Solo Gives You Time To Reflect
The time you’d normally spend chatting before bed, or on the train, or walking around a city is now yours. Maybe you want to read a book set in the country of your travels. Perhaps you want to investigate the history of the fascinating building you saw yesterday. It’s a whole lot of time you don’t normally have. Use it wisely. Write a journal. Start your novel. Use that freedom.
You Can Make Your Own Choices (And Be Selfish In A Good Way)
Sometimes you just want to wallow in your own joys. Whether it’s gardens, art, history, books, live music, it’s your time and your rules. So if taking yet another trip on the riverboat makes you happy, you get to do it without taking into account someone else’s preferences. Of course it means you miss out on their joys too, but that’s for the trips you take together.
But it Makes You Reach Out To others
When you travel with other people, you always have a closer bond there than with anyone you meet on the road. Traveling alone encourages you to make more connections. Whether it’s taking a class or workshop – perhaps chocolate making or yoga – in a new place, or simply chatting to the person at the next table over lunch, you get to be more open.
Traveling Alone will Improve Your Language Skills
As you’re the one who needs to make all the arrangements, you get to do all the talking. And whether it’s learning as you go, or harnessing the power of mime and the odd noun, it’s wildly satisfying to understand and be understood when you’re on the road.
You’ll get to Know Yourself Better
Traveling alone brings all kinds of new discoveries about yourself. You’ll learn more about what makes you stressed or annoys you. You’ll find yourself doing things you didn’t know you could, and that’s empowering.
You Can Misplace Your Comfort Zone
And that’s a very good thing indeed. Travel can shake you out of your normal habits enough to make you question them. I’m not sure I’ve ever returned home the same person that left. So don’t be afraid to try a different you, and if you like that change, keep it.
Feeling anxious? That’s entirely natural. I found some brilliant tips on managing travel anxiety on solo trips here. There are lots of strategies discussed that can help you have your best experiences.
There’s Sweet Pain In Missing Those You Love
Parting may be a sweet sorrow, but there’s nothing like traveling alone to remind you of the good things in your life back home. Distance can give us a sharp elbow in the ribs to remind us just how much we miss our loved ones. Being a little bit homesick on the road is no bad thing. It tells us just how much we’re missing. And just think of all we’re bringing back home to energise and refresh those relationships.
It Can Be Less Stressful
I think we’ve all been there. Those travel plans that seemed a good idea at the time, but turned into a disappointment. Whether it’s relationships or friendships that soured on the road, or simply a complete mismatch of priorities, values or preferences, travel can highlight the differences between us. So if you’re a culture vulture and your mate loves a beach and a novel, sometimes solo travel’s the way forward.
It Can Make You Happier
If both holidays and time alone are proven to make most of us happier, then clearly time traveling alone has to be even better. We’ll take all the happies we can get.
Want More encouragement to Travel Solo?
So now you know how to travel alone. And if you wanted any further encouragement on the benefits of time alone, look no further than Psychology Today’s article on how spending time alone can change your life.
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